Frequently Asked Questions

Do you use sex surrogates in sex therapy?

I do not use sex surrogates. In addition, I work to create a warm and inviting atmosphere in each session but there is absolutely no physical touching in session.

Is sex therapy only for heterosexuals?

Sexual problems can occur in all types of relationships and all relationship structures, whether heterosexual, gay, lesbian, or bisexual. I respectfully work with people to find solutions that meet the unique needs of their relationship.

I am not currently in a relationship. Is sex therapy still for me?

If you are single and feel there are specific sexual concerns or issues that you can't figure out on your own or work through with the support of friends or family, then trying to work with a sex therapist can be a helpful new way to approach the issues.

What if I'm not sure what the problem is?

Sometimes people come to counseling to try and define their problems. Often anxiety or depression and loss of self esteem accompany sexual concerns and it is difficult to figure out what's wrong. I will work closely with each individual or couple to identify the source of the concern in order to maximize positive results.

Will my insurance cover the cost of treatment?

If you are using insurance, there is no guarantee that your insurance will cover your fees. You can check the amount of reimbursement allowed by calling the number on your insurance card and asking about mental health coverage for an out of network provider.
A monthly bill to submit to your insurance company for reimbursement can be provided upon request.
Fees are to be paid at the time of the session.  For your convenience, check, cash, Visa and Mastercard are accepted.

How long will it take to solve my problem?

Just as every individual is different, so is every sexual concern. I will ask questions and make assessments to gain a thorough understanding of the problem and then, based on these findings, I will discuss with you a personalized treatment plan.
I want you to get better as quickly as possible and always attempt brief sex therapy. Brief sex therapy typically lasts from 10-20 sessions. Some people only require a few visits while some require longer treatment due to the complexity of their concern. Early intervention can reduce the amount of sessions required.

How long is each session?

I allot 50 minutes for each session. I start each session on the hour and utilize the last 10 minutes of the hour to write and organize notes relating to your unique concern.

What can I expect from the first session?

Each client is asked to arrive for the first session 10 minutes early to fill out intake forms. The rest of the session is designed for me to get to know you and the unique concern you are bringing for treatment. This session is also a time in which we can decide whether or not sex therapy is the correct mode of treatment for your concern or whether a referral is necessary.

Is sex therapy confidential?

Your session is totally confidential and will be discussed with someone only with your prior written consent. Your confidentiality is protected by law. Certain state laws require that licensed mental health professionals report instances when a person is a danger to himself or others, or when child, elder, or dependent adult abuse is involved.

Do I come alone or with my partner for the first visit?

This can be discussed at the time you schedule an appointment. It is best that your partner know if you are starting counseling if you hope to include him or her in sessions in the future. Clarify what would be best for you and discuss that with your partner. If your partner won't come to counseling, benefit can also be gained by coming alone and working on the problem from your side.